Debunking the Prenup Stigma

Copyright (c) 2007 Law Offices of Donald P.puts a couple in the driver's seat, letting two
Schweitzerindividuals make their own specialized marital laws.
People love choices. Typical Americans, andSo why not take advantage of this ability to
especially Californians, are no exception. In theself-govern? If one is willing to take so much care
"golden state", residents pride themselves onin ensuring their favorite song is also their ring
novelty and uniqueness in most aspects of theirtone, surely, they should invest as much time (if
lives. Inhabitants here scoff at the notion of anot more) protecting their legal interests if a
lifestyle template-they would rather tailor theirdivorce ensues.
own existence to meet their specific needs andSo, for those out there brave (and wise) enough
desires. Case in point-personal electronic devices.to create their own laws, the following is a brief
Almost everyone in California has one-but no onesummary of the legal requirements California
device is quite the same. There are so manyimposes upon prenuptial agreements in 2007. The
exciting choices to make before becoming anagreement shall:
owner, such as: What carrier do you choose?Be in contemplation of marriage; Be in writing; Be
What kind of plan do you get? How much do yousigned by both parties; Not adversely affect a
want to spend each month? How many minuteschild's right to support; Not be in violation of public
is enough? What device do you get? A basicpolicy or a statute imposing a criminal penalty; Be
cellular phone? Or an "all-in-one", with phone,voluntarily entered into, which is defined as: the
e-mail, internet, camera, and music features? Orparty (against whom enforcement is sought)
something in between? Do you get a blue-toothbeing represented by legal counsel at the time of
attachment? This year's model or last year'ssigning the agreement or said representation being
model? What kind of ring tones will you select?expressly waived, in a separate writing the party
What color will you choose? A carrying case?(against whom enforcement is sought) having not
Accessories of any kind? Certainly, there areless than seven calendar days between the time
more decisions to be made. The point is thatthat the party was first presented with the
almost everyone leaps at the chance to makeagreement and advised to seek independent
these somewhat silly choices. People love thecounsel and the time the agreement was signed
autonomy and self-design this process allowsthe party (against whom enforcement is sought if
them.unrepresented by counsel) was fully informed of
Strangely enough, Californians do not seem tothe terms and basic effect of the agreement as
celebrate choice and self-governance whenwell as the rights and obligations he or she was
entering into the marital relationship. The vastgiving up by signing the agreement, and was
majority of Californians do not opt to create theirproficient in the language in which the explanation
own "prenuptial agreement" (a before marriageof the party's rights was conduced and in which
agreement) with regard to resolution of propertythe agreement was written the explanation of
and support issues in the event a dissolutionthese rights must be memorialized in an
occurs. Rather, they rely on the defaultagreement in writing and delivered to the party
community property system which controls hereprior to signing the agreement receipt of this
in California, and in several other states. In fact,explanation (as well as the source) must also be
many argue that the existence of a prenuptialacknowledged in a signed document All
agreement reveals that an impending marriage isdocuments were signed without duress, fraud,
doomed to fail. This group would argue thatundue influence, or lack of capacity; and Not be
preparing for the ending of a marriageunconscionable, which is defined as: the party
before-hand, during the "good" times, suggests anbeing provided a fair, reasonable, and full disclosure
underlying deficiency in the relationship. Admittedly,of the property and financial obligations of the
creating a prenuptial agreement requires a coupleparty the party voluntarily and expressly waiving
to venture into territory that may not betheir right to disclosure of the property and
comfortable. Imagining the end of a marriage isfinancial obligations beyond disclosure provided the
obviously depressing-and certainly no one wantsparty having an adequate knowledge of the
to be depressed, especially after they haveproperty and financial obligations.
decided to embark on a new life with a partner.***If the agreement contains provisions regarding
Nonetheless, this endeavor forces two people tothe issue of spousal support, including, but not
communicate about important financial issues theylimited to, a waiver of said support, the party
may have never discussed before, such as:against whom enforcement is sought must be
division of assets (present and future), division ofrepresented by independent counsel at the time
debts (present and future), spousal support, childof signing.
support, etc. In that way, it could even beClearly, the aforementioned guidelines are intended
characterized as a litmus test for the marriage.only to be a starting point in the creation of a
In any event, the creation of a prenuptialprenuptial agreement. Once you and your partner
agreement allows a couple to craft their own planhave discussed the ideal plan for your legal
with regard to their marital future. It provides apartnership, it is most advisable to take said plans
way to tailor and design the possible terminationto an attorney to have him or her memorialize
of a marriage to completely meet your needsthe agreement.
and wants. In essence, a prenuptial agreementKayla Horacekc/o Law Offices Of Donald P.